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В социальных сетях существует немало тематических групп, содержание которых аморально, граничит с жестокостью, а порой являют собой откровенный садизм.
Взять хотя бы нашумевшую историю Хабаровских живодерок. Подобных роликов в сети можно найти сотни. Многие из них, с зарубежных каналов. Подростки снимают на видео истязания животных, более слабых сверстников, стариков и бездомных.
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За рубежом пошла странная мода делать — селфи на фоне стихийных бедствий: наводнений, пожаров и т.д. Люди фотографируются на фоне попавших в ДТП автомобилей. Вместо того, чтобы броситься на помощь, они сначала стараются запечатлеть себя с более выгодного ракурса. Наши пользователи, увы, не остались в стороне от этой тенденции. Не так давно, мне на глаза попалась фотография медсестры реанемобиля, которая сфотографировалась на фоне умирающего пациента. Свое фото девушка снабдила красноречивой подписью «Сдали реанимашке, давление по нулям». Подобные фото, я бы с уверенностью назвала апогеем глупости и аморальности.
В мире было отмечено немало случаев, когда ради удачного кадра люди рисковали жизнью, и заканчивалось это весьма плачевно. Такие случаи отмечены и в нашей стране. Так, в Москве молодой мужчина сорвался с балкона 20 этажа, пытаясь сделать серфи.
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Девушка часто проводит трансляции в этой сети, рассказывает о своей жизни, дает советы и т.д. Конечно, ей хочется, что бы ее трансляции смотрело как можно людей, как можно больше подписчиков ставили ей «лайки». И ради этого она готова практически на любые жертвы. Так, один из зрителей, юноша 19 лет предложил ей снять футболку и показать обнаженную грудь, хорошо хотя бы в «привате», то есть другие пользователи этого не увидят. За это подписчик обещал ей 1000 лайков. И девушка, недолго думая, согласилась. К счастью, ее поступок не остался не замеченным. О том, чем занимается их дочь, узнали родители и приняли соответствующие меры.
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Но селфиманией страдают не только люди неуверенные в себе. На мой взгляд, пожалуй, многие коллеги со мной в этом согласятся, люди стали меньше общаться между собой. Подчас у многих не хватает времени на то, чтобы забежать к подруге или посидеть с приятелем к кафе, через социальные сети люди делятся своими впечатлениями о каких-то событиях, своими ощущениями.
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